Blending families together through a unity sand ceremony...
In today’s world, divorce is unfortunately a rising statistic. In
fact, nearly one-third of all Americans are currently part of a blended
family. So, for most bride and groom pairs bringing their families
together, there’s a unique obligation to make it special.
Naturally,
you will want to include your children in the ceremony; so, that they
will feel like a valuable part of the union right from the start. One
great way to do this is with a
sand unity ceremony set.
Traditionally,
the couple lights a central pillar candle from two taper candles, which
are lit by representatives of each party’s family at the beginning of
the ceremony. This lighting can be accompanied by a blessing, vows, or
can be done on its own. As timeless and elegant as this tradition is,
though, it leaves no room for members of a blended family.
The
sand unity ceremony is a beautiful way to incorporate any children or
other family members that you want to include in your ceremony. The
concept is similar to that of the unity candle ceremony, but much more
inclusive for blended families. Each party is given a small vase of
different-colored sand, which is then poured into a larger vase,
symbolizing the coming-together of your families. After the ceremony,
the vase can be placed in the home as a reminder of your special day.
Not
only is the sand unity ceremony a great way to bring together your
blended family, it can also be a very personal part of your wedding
day. Your unity vase can be engraved with your names, monogram, or
other message. In addition, your choice of sand colors can reflect your
wedding colors, home décor, or any other significant part of your life.
Not only will you have a gorgeous keepsake from your wedding day,
you’ll also have the pleasure of knowing that the important members of
your family were all included in your special day.